What do you consider to be the ideal relationship? I find the perfect relationship to be almost impossible to find but for me I like a chilled atmosphere between my and my lady. I like to have my own space and everything but still be close at the same time. She has to accept my interests and my passions but without taking a direct interest herself. Money is no concern of mine, I don't care whether she's rich or poor but she must take pride in her appearance and good care of herself.