Do you have any goals when you look for somebody to date? By this I mean do you date just to have a significant other or are you more prone to only date somebody if you think there is potential for something more? Personally I would not date somebody unless I saw a potential for marriage down the road. I realize you can't always know for sure before getting to know somebody more but then again I wouldn't date somebody I didn't already know to some degree. I think it's a waste of time otherwise.