Okay, once upon a time my best mate was in love with this girl who is incredibly hot by the way. That was about two years ago and I got to know her really well till the point where she was one of my "best friends" but I really liked her more than I should've done. I kept my feelings to myself since she was with my best mate. They had a really bad break up and we kinda lost touch aswell. Last week she was down visiting her parents and she phoned me to see if we could catch up. We really seemed to click and she told me that she had had feelings for me when she was with my mate which really messed with my head. One thing led to another and we kinda slept together. She wants to see me again but she lives a fair bit away and so is only down this way every few weeks. I dunno if it would ever develop into anything serious but there's a strong chance it might. My mate is now engaged to another girl and they have a little girl together. Should I pursue this? I know I've been a bit of a plonker getting involved with her and I feel really bad about it, but if there's something there don't I owe it to myself to see where it goes? If so, do I tell him up front and risk him freaking out or do I wait and see if things develop first before dropping the bombshell? :sigh: Any opinions welcome.