so my boyfriend and i have been dating for a few years and are planning on moving in together this coming fall. Now we have fought over just about anything a couple could fight about. Neither one of us has been unfaithful but lately i feel as if he doesnt get me. I mean the time we spend together is limited because hes away at school as i am attending a community college. its not a great distance but with our schedules we cant see each other during the week and its difficult for us to talk. when we see one another on some weekends its great but sometimes its irritating that we'll make plans and ill get ditched for whatever reason. Its hard for me because i feel as if i put so much in this relationship and i feel he doesnt put as much in. ive always made sure to let him know how much he means to me or how i much i appreciate him and am there for him. He doesnt seem to get me, when im feeling off about where we're going and how he feels. hes saying i love you less and less, and only wants to talk about what my dreams and goals are and then tear me down by saying things like "i dont challenge him"(what does that mean?) and he wants someone who has goals! i DO have goals!! and he knows what they are. i guess im just looking for a little insight. he loves me i know and i love him as well im just...confused.