Do you think you spoil your kids? If so do you do it consciously or do you not even realize that you are doing at times and other people tell you that you do? How do you think spoiling your kids have made them? I was spoiled as a kid and I still am. Sometimes it seems like it has affected me in a negative way but for the most part it hasnt. I dont throw a tantrum when I dont get my way, or cry. Do I think I will spoil my kids, probably.