some people are just stupid!!!!

Discussion in 'Dating & Relationships' started by justwondering, Oct 15, 2009.

  1. justwondering

    justwondering Registered Member

    y do they always fall in love with someone when they know they are with someone else knowing they arent goin to leave them...

    really can it be real love???

    and then even more stupid is they end up with a child with them thinking that its never going to happen again...


    stupid people!!!
     

  2. redsoxocd

    redsoxocd living on the border

    its not stupidity

    you cant help who you fall in love with
     
  3. justwondering

    justwondering Registered Member




    I agree u cant help who u fall in love with but how can u fall in love with someone when they arent giving u their whole self?
     
  4. redsoxocd

    redsoxocd living on the border


    Its not something that can be explained. One of my exes ha admitted that he feels that way about me, and even though I dont understand it, I accept it, and I accept that there is nothing I can do about it.

    Just because the person isnt giving you their whole self doesnt mean that you cant love them. Its just going to hurt that they dont love you back.
     
  5. EllyDicious

    EllyDicious made of AMBIGUITY V.I.P. Lifetime

    first off, you can't control who you fall in love with. if i fall in love with your boyfriend is not my fault, is not your fault, is not his fault, is not anyone else's fault. you can't stop me from falling in love with him, and this doesn't make me stupid. no one has the right to stop me from feeling for him.

    BUT my conscience should stop me from going further than this. which means, i know he's in a relationship so i shouldn't tolerate myself if i kiss/have sex with him. hence, i have no right to get into something more with him..when knowing that he has a partner and is in a relationship.

    acting would make me stupid. ..
    falling in love, no!
     
  6. justwondering

    justwondering Registered Member

    I just dont feel that it can be real love...if u dont really kno the person
     
  7. EllyDicious

    EllyDicious made of AMBIGUITY V.I.P. Lifetime

    the fact that the other person is in a relationship doesn't mean i don't know him.
    let's say i have a male friend for years now..., he's in a relationship. .and i strongly feel for him .. bu this doesn't mean i don't know him and or that it's not real love ....
     
    Last edited: Oct 17, 2009
  8. Bliss

    Bliss Sally Twit

    Does anyone ever really show you their full self until you're in a relationship though? Of course you can fall in love with someone who is already taken. Just because they don't love you back doesn't mean you can't feel love for them.
     
  9. justwondering

    justwondering Registered Member

    thats something total diffrent that what i am talking about...u have been friends with him for years so u do kno him...im talkin bout just meeting someone and knowing they are in a relationship u arent getting enough of them to fall in love. u are just gettign a few mins of there time when they can get away or a quick phone call...and for it only to be a short time and say i love u isnt real...IMO
     
  10. DinoFlintstone

    DinoFlintstone "There can be only one!"


    True. [​IMG]

    Makes me think o' this:

    YouTube - UB40 CAN'T HELP FALLING IN LOVE

    However, when the person is with another, just walk on away.
     

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