Is good for me but not for her. We have been dating for 9 almost 10 months and we've had sex a handful of times. I was her first as she was mine so we were both new to it. As time went on we kept finding out that she's wasn't enjoying it and it was only hurting her. What could it be? We've tried different angles. We've made sure she was in the mood. We have lube and it still seems to hurt her. What are we doing wrong?