I originally had posted this as a reply to the "Your Type" thread but the more I thought about it this is more a picture of my spouse than a "type". I figured this would make a good thread too. For those that are currently unmarried, what qualities and attributes do you look for in a potential spouse? How flexible are you on these? Mine in no particular order: 1. Extremely hard to get 2. Shares very similar beliefs and values 3. Unashamedly intolerant of porn and womanizing attitudes 4. Self respecting and confident in herself 5. At least some similar interests 6. Motivated and ambitious 7. Leads a healthy lifestyle 8. Is generally optimistic and outgoing 9. Loves kids and wants plenty 10. Doesn't change who she is for anybody I could go on and on. In a nutshell, this woman is beautiful beyond words. The love of my life. :nod: And no, I am not very flexible on these.