I know we've had similar threads before ... anyway ... I wanted to ask you: How much would you tolerate your SO to have night out-s with his/her friends but not with you? Up to what point? I was talking with my cousin today and she said she wouldn't want her fiance to go out with his boys for a night out, at a club/pub...whatever....otherwise it would mean their relationship was falling apart. According to her, he should not feel uncomfortable taking her out with his friends and their girlfriends. I disagreed a bit because, [according to me] everyone needs their own spaces in a relationship whether it's a girls-night-out or boys-night-out... Of course, this doesn't have to happen every week...or..I don't know .. What do you think? Are the frequent nights-out a bad sign for the relationship?