So i've lived here for about three years, and I don't really have a best friend. I'm on the swim team, and I'm good friends with one of my teammates, I'd say. He's got his group of friends that are all really close and at school we all talk and hang out and hit on girls and stuff. But outside of school I feel left out because every time I try to make plans to do something with any of them, I'll never get a response (usually through text). Am I just being paranoid or do they just act like they're friends with me and really aren't? I always feel like everyone hates me, and doesn't like to be around me. A recent example of this was when one of the guys told me about the talent show at school he said he wanted to go while he was high. I texted him an hour before it startedto see his plans, but no answer. We were also supposed to drive together, but I just eventually went by myself. I did see him and all of the other guys together and we sat and had a good time, but afterwards they left and didn't invite me to where they were going which kinda upset me. What's up with this?