Ok so heres the deal. I responded to this guys ad on Craig's List. I know bad right but I got out of a relationship 10 months ago. And I need to meet so new people and start dating again. With my work a school schedule I don't have time to go out and meet new people. Anywho I met this guy by sending him a e-mail through his personal ad. He e-mailed me back with his phone number and screen name. We have been talking online for a couple of days now. He seems like a very down to earth guy, funny and sweet. So hears the problem, he wants to sleep with me right off the bat. He says this is how he can tell if there is a connection or not. And this is the part I'm not sure about. We have seen pictures of each other, and I have to say I'm very attracted to him both emotionally and physically. And he told me he thinks I'm sexy and sweet. He wants to meet and hook up or whatever. But I'm still on the fence about this. I have only every had one sexual partner and that was after being in the relationship with him for six months before we slept together. Part of me is like just do it sleep with him and see what happens. But the other part of me says not to rush into anything, to make him wait and see if he is still interested in me. Hes going away tomorrow till Sunday. So I have some time to think it over some more. Had to tell him we could not meet up tonight mainly cause I was worried I would do something I regret. He seemed disappointed but then he said he would talk to me when he got back. So hes still interested. So what do you guys think? Should I do stuff with him right off the bat? Or should I give him a ultimatum of how I feel and try and take things slow? Anya advice would be helpful. Thanks so much.