Being involved in a mixed relationship myself, I have learned so much from the dynamic. I am a black man, I have a White Woman, and a good one at that. But I struggled with that at first, two years of thinking I am betraying the women of my race. It was a type of faith in my race, thinking I am made to be with one of my own kind. And I have had plenty of black women, and hold nothing against them. Nothing at all, I just happened to be fortunate enough to have a woman who is my everything, and she just happens to be white. She didnot struggle with it, but went through my struggle with me, supportive all along the way. I tried to push her away too many times too count, but I finally came to my senses. But not without an inner struggle. I was thinking how simular this experience is to belief in God. Your doing something that not everyone accepts. Even have problems accepting it yourself. Everyonelse seems to hold faith in the way they were raised to be, brought up to accept, but somethingelse seems to be happening to you. Your going another way, seeing something different. But its mixing with already established ways of being in your life. Insn't that what being gay is mostly about? Your going against the established way of being. But your feeling love, as the straight people are feeling love, but your love is unacceptable. Your believing certain things about God, that are unacceptable. Or your not believing in God, which is unacceptable. Your having mixed relationships in your belief. And I want to go into that. Peace.