Do you think that they give away belts these days? Especially to younger children? I ask this because last night I grappled with a 13 or 14 year old boy. He was a black belt, I am currently a beginner and a yellow belt. I tapped him out 3 times within a minute each time, and after the 3rd time I "hurt" him and he didn't want to grapple anymore. Yes, he was young...and yes, I've been told I have a natural ability at it...but, shouldn't his skill still surpass mine by far? I feel like they're catering to the "everyone gets a prize" type thing, and that this boy never should have gotten near a black belt, but did anyway so that his feelings wouldn't be hurt. Is this normal everywhere, or just at my particular gym?