AmericanMusic
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it's probably a stereotype to a lot of people that women want to wear make up, put on jewelry, and feminine type clothes.
But that's not the real case. There's a lot of women that don't want to do all or some of these things.
For example a girl would dress like a tomboy but yet still puts makeup on. Another girl puts on girl clothes and no makeup.
Some wear jewelry and some don't.
Let's suppose that there's this woman who has a husband/boyfriend.. He's says I'm attracted to you when you put makeup and jewelry on. She says I just do that for special occasions. He says why can't you do that all the time? I want you to look pretty all the time.
So as you can see she only does this on special occasions. I know how it feels as far as the male aspect.
I don't worry about the jewelry that much. I like when women do their nails and just a little makeup, cleaned up, shampooed hair and feminine clothes. I once broke up with this girl because she insisted on being a tomboy.
If this woman that I mentioned only wants to wear makeup on occasions but he wants her to wear makeup and jewelry all the time how can this couple solve this problem? Is she right or he right?
Maybe they're both wrong or both partly right. If you were a therapist counseling this couple what would you tell them?
Are there any men here that had this problem or have it not with their wife/girlfriend?
But that's not the real case. There's a lot of women that don't want to do all or some of these things.
For example a girl would dress like a tomboy but yet still puts makeup on. Another girl puts on girl clothes and no makeup.
Some wear jewelry and some don't.
Let's suppose that there's this woman who has a husband/boyfriend.. He's says I'm attracted to you when you put makeup and jewelry on. She says I just do that for special occasions. He says why can't you do that all the time? I want you to look pretty all the time.
So as you can see she only does this on special occasions. I know how it feels as far as the male aspect.
I don't worry about the jewelry that much. I like when women do their nails and just a little makeup, cleaned up, shampooed hair and feminine clothes. I once broke up with this girl because she insisted on being a tomboy.
If this woman that I mentioned only wants to wear makeup on occasions but he wants her to wear makeup and jewelry all the time how can this couple solve this problem? Is she right or he right?
Maybe they're both wrong or both partly right. If you were a therapist counseling this couple what would you tell them?
Are there any men here that had this problem or have it not with their wife/girlfriend?
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