Ok my neighbor upstairs is pretty cool, i've known him for a while now. He'll come down and drink beer w/ me and hang out etc... I've asked him a few times after 7pm or so to try and be quiet. No loud music, no thumpin around mainly because I go to bed early for my morning job, and our kids go down early too. Sound really carries in our building. I've been nice about it, and dont want to ruin our friendship. The other night he was moving and dragging furniture around at 1am and blasting his music. He seems to forget I go to bed early, it woke me up, my fiance and our 2 year old started crying, needless to say I was pissed. Now everynight around 6:30 or so he'll thump his loud rap music to the point where I am boiling. He has it so loud that he doesnt answer his door or phone. I don't want to call the police and ruin our friendship, and everytime I ask him to stop he sorta gets an additude, but over all is cool with it. It'll stop for a day or so... then begin again... it gets really old after awhile. Any ideas on what I could do, and moving is out of the question because we need this place now because its not so expensive.