Me, my partner, my 1 year old baby and his parents were planning on going on a camping trip over a weekend, however I started a new job and couldn't get that weekend off. I broke the bad news to my partner and his parents and thought nothing more of it. However, the supposed camping trip was this weekend and my partners parents had bought the baby and all in one raincoat and was showing it to me today and I clicked that they wanted to take my baby camping without me. I told them I didn't want them taking my baby without me because it would be her first holiday and didn't want to miss out. My partners mother seemed upset by this as she said my partner said that they could take her without us! This made me look like a right idiot and I don't think my in laws believed that I didn't know anything about it but now I know i've been made to look stupid. To the in laws eyes my partner has done nothing wrong as he is their son and I'm the one in the wrong. They haven't said this but I know that's what they think. I know it will blow over and they will forget but how do I stop this from happening again?? I've already spoke to my partner about clearing things with me and telling me things but he just doesn't tell me things and in the long run i'm the one that ends up looking like the bitch. Any advice on this??