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It's Not That You Aren't Good Enough


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Not all relationships last a lifetime. Sometimes two people who have been dating or have gotten married to each other split up.

Some people who have been dumped by someone whom they're attracted to think that they were rejected because they weren't good enough for the other person.

However, that isn't true.

It's not that they aren't good enough for the other person. Instead, it's because they aren't compatible with each other. Big difference.

In my opinion, if someone dumps you because you treated the person like dirt, then that's one thing. But if you treated the other person with respect and they ended the relationship, it's not that you aren't good enough for that person. Again, it's because you aren't compatible with each other.