My boyfriend and I are expecting and neither of us are religious. Our family has recently begun asking us questions about whether or not we will be baptizing our child. We were both raised Catholic, however he comes from a much more devout family then I do. Both of his parents want a baptism and my grandmother want's one, my mother thinks its a good idea to do so, however she isn't religious. We would like to raise the child in an open-minded enviroment and allow it to learn about all religions and make an educated decision on it's own. We aren't so much concerned about making our familys happy, as being able to answer questions that may arise at a young age such as; what is God, church, where do we go where we die, and what happens when to our loved ones when/if they pass without lying to them as far as what we, the parents, actually believe. So I guess my question goes beyond just baptism. As both of us are Agnostic, we are at a loss as to what we should do. Any insight about this topic specifically or in general is much appreciated!!