Complete the sentence. Is there any one thing that would make you a different person than who you are now if it were different? Something that happened in your life, didn't happen, a physical attribute, etc? Me, I would be a completely different person if I had average sized tits. edited to add: having a body shape/size that is so far removed from average really affected my self-esteem. I've never been able to buy a bathing suit off the rack, or even a bra for that matter.