I've debated this topic a dozen times before for way too long and to this day, I still have yet to hear a decent reason against gay marriage. I feel arrogant in thinking this way, but I feel as if no good reasons actually exist. What ever happened to live and let live? Gays getting married does not and never will affect you, the straight observer. It will only make life harder and more of a struggle for people genuinely in love. Some people will say, "It's tax dollars being spent on something I don't believe in," and all I have to say . . . is that you've picked now and this topic to start questioning what your government spends money on? Fuck's sake if even a quarter of Americans knew what their money went to they'd probably start paying for gay marriages themselves. What do you think? What is the best reason you've heard against gay marriage?