Ok So we haven't been married that long, but lately he's getting undre my skin! These are the things that are bothering me, read them and give me your opinion and keep in mind he really is a great guy, we just need to tweak some things! Ok, we both work. I come home and when I get done with supper I like to get on the computer. Its in the living room and I can talk to him while I am on there! I dont stay on THAT long you all know that you hardly ever see me on here at night! So, he's been gripeing that I stay on the computer all evening and then move to the couch and fall asleep! Kinda makes me mad because first off all, usually the tv is on the speed channel, I DONT WANT TO WATCH THAT! Second he usually just falls asleep while watching tv weather I am watching it with him or on the computer! Ok so two nights in a row he is wanting to go over to a friend of his house to help him work on his computer. He asks me to go and both times I say no. I'm tired, I've been up since 5 AM, the kids have drove me nuts since I got home and I have PMS. I DONT WANT TO go mingle with anyone on a work night and drag Paxton around till 10 oclock! So he doesn't go because I wont go with him! SO I guess we are going tonight UGH! Also, I am reminded CONSTANTLY that if he catches me chatting it up with guys online that the computer goes! And he is ALWAYS reminding me that if I ever cheat on him it is over right then and there. Now this irritates me to no end because I was married for almost 17 years before James died and NEVER ONCE did I EVER cheat on him!! So am I just being a heifer or do I have reason to feel this way?