I was engaged to a woman we dated for four years. We had hardships, and we had happiness together in four years. She left me and dated my friend, and a year later got married. I'll admit that we were both at fault when she left me. Hmmph Years later I dated a classmate we had a lot in common. We were both artistic, and gamers. And a few months later she left me and started dating my other ex friend. That was f'd up. Later I dated a girl that I was interested in. We flirted with eachother a lot and started to hangout together. Going to clubs, and just hangin out a lot. Come to find out she is now living with my older brother. I thought it was messed up. I started talking to this girl my parents introduced me to (kinda like an omiai) and we started talking and chatting here and then. When we grew feelings for each other we started to talk more. Until recently she married my other older brother. As of now my brother whom I dislike is just a brother I love him but I don't like him. At first when I thought about what happen in the last decade I've been in such a situation where I don't know how to feel. I was mad, but not jealous. I was broken hearted but not sad. I don't wish happiness for my ex friends and my ex girlfriends, nor do I wish them hardships. Has any of these scenarios happen to you at all? How do you suppose to feel when a friend or a closed sibling of yours crosses your boundary? Or should there be a boundary about that? I'm at lost to this.