How Do You Attract Others Attention?

Discussion in 'Dating & Relationships' started by English-Emo-Boy, Nov 24, 2008.

  1. English-Emo-Boy

    English-Emo-Boy Supreme System Lord V.I.P. Lifetime

    Okay so there's a hot piece of fluff sitting the other side of the pub/cafe/restuarant.

    How do you attract his/her attention?

    Do you just go straight in for the jugular with all guns blazing with the risk of making yourself look like a dolt or do you play it cool and try to attract his/her attention with eye contact or innocent compliments. Alternatively you might just not bother and maybe wait for them to come to you.

    Personally I'll just sit back and wait for them to take notice in me. If they don't then I'll try a little eye contact. If that gets me nowhere then it's obvious that they're not interested.

    Feel free to share your methods and experiences.
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  2. WesJones87

    WesJones87 RayzorBlade87

    I'd go:

    "*Whistle* Oi, darlin'! Fancy a drink and maybe we could go back to my bedroom and get down n dirty *wink*" I mean, how could she resist?

    Seriously though, I'd just keep trying to catch their eye, then when they look, give them my best smile, one that shows all my tooth (joke), and see if they smile back. If they do, game on. Offer to by them something, depending on where you are.
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  3. Vidic15

    Vidic15 No Custom Title Exists V.I.P. Lifetime

    I would usually give them a glare, and if she looks, give her a smile and after that, give her a compliment, if she takes it, I would ask for the number and maybe even go and have a drink somewhere.

    Well, it worked yesterday.
  4. LadyPinky

    LadyPinky scientia potestas est

    I make eye contact with them and smile. Then sip my drink and such glancing at them every once and a while. Push my hair behind my ears and smile. If they don't come over to me after a while I head over to them and say hello.
  5. Rebeccaaa

    Rebeccaaa yellow 4!

    "a hot piece of fluff" :laugh:

    I don't think I would ever approach anyone, but lots of eye contact is always a good start. Maybe some innocent compliments throw in if I was feeling a little more confident. :nod:
  6. oxyMORON

    oxyMORON A Darker Knight

    Assuming I'm interested in the person, I'd be a little more shy than with ordinary people. First I'd just sit and maybe throw a few glances. Then I'd probably make an excuse to go over there and see what happens afterwards.

    If she's just eye candy, then I'd just sit back and enjoy the show. :lol:
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  7. fragile

    fragile Registered Member

    That's pretty much what I would do too. Eye contact and a smile. The only difference is that I would not go over there and say hi. I'm too much of a coward! :(
  8. princessbella

    princessbella Registered Member

    eye contact does the trick, smiles, they usualy come over and say hi after that if not, probably not interested or very shy.
    if theyre returnign ur smiles, but your with a group that usually puts them off so, mae an excuse to go to the bar so your alone :)
  9. KLaZik_BEATz

    KLaZik_BEATz Registered Member

    I start a conversation about something unimportant like asking the time or for directions and then that leads to what are you doing here and then right before we started sharing to much i pull out the ol cell phone and act like someone is calling and act like i tell the person on the other line im busy
  10. Atreyu

    Atreyu #2 New Zealander

    I lol'd considering you're like 14 and it sounds like your going to a pub. lol

    I give eye contact a shot, and if they don't come over i'm a bit shy. So if I can build confidence I'd give it a shot

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