Okay so there's a hot piece of fluff sitting the other side of the pub/cafe/restuarant. How do you attract his/her attention? Do you just go straight in for the jugular with all guns blazing with the risk of making yourself look like a dolt or do you play it cool and try to attract his/her attention with eye contact or innocent compliments. Alternatively you might just not bother and maybe wait for them to come to you. Personally I'll just sit back and wait for them to take notice in me. If they don't then I'll try a little eye contact. If that gets me nowhere then it's obvious that they're not interested. Feel free to share your methods and experiences.