I've been having issues with my boyfriend for some time now and last night seemed to really get me. I need some advice as I'm not sure if this has just become a case of "he's just not that into you" or if he still could love me and act this way....Here's what happened....I was at dinner with my mom who at dinner just told me she has another cancerous mole they found and needs a biopsy. I really wanted to just see my bf but i usually wait for him to call or text as I don't want to seem annoying in the relationship. At about 8:30 he says this: Him: My head is Thumping. I'm going to bed, goodnight love u. Me: oh ok Me: No talk tonight ? Me: I've kinda been waiting all night so we could talk Him: I can't talk in my sleep Me:Why didnt you call or txt earlier then ? Me: Was busy Me: Too busy to call ? Doing what ? Me: Just the same thing i was meaning earlier just doesnt seem fair yet again Me (fyi we had a huge fight the night before): I would have put us first tonight in figuring this out but whatever you were busy doing what you cant tell me ? Me: and u cant even make the effort to call for 2 min ... says alot Me (after waiting a while): Hello ? why arent you answering this isnt nice at all ? are you with someone else or somthing why cant you tell me ? Me: Alright i get it ... thanks alot for the respect. This isn't the first time he just ignores me like this and at a time like last night (even though he wasn't aware yet) just really made me wonder if I'm wasting my time here. He thinks I am acting jealous and possessive, but I don't think its too much to ask to see your boyfriend more than once or twice a week (when you live literally down the road)....or talk on the phone (he refuses to - will only talk online) We used to see each other and talk much more often than we do now and I'm just not sure if hes just not interested anymore or if hes changed or lost feelings. He said its because of how I act because I get upset...but I only act that way because he seems to act like he doesn't care anymore... if that makes sense. Am I acting too crazy/possessive or is it really that hes just not that into me and I should just move on?