He doesn't call but he is sorry.

Discussion in 'Dating & Relationships' started by Lorraine, Nov 10, 2009.

  1. Lorraine

    Lorraine New Member

    I guess that means he ditched me.
    He no longer asks me out and calls.
    But when I wished him on his birthday on MSN, he told me he was sorry that we haven't met lately.
    We had such good times together, although we weren't official.
    Is he telling a white lie?

  2. Rebeccaaa

    Rebeccaaa yellow 4!

    Do you call him and ask if he wants to go out?

    Maybe he's been busy, or maybe he's moved on. We, or you, can't know unless you talk to him about where you stand. It doesn't have to be all serious, just ask what he's been up to recently and suggest you should start hanging out more, see what he says..
  3. Babe_Ruth

    Babe_Ruth Sultan of Swat Staff Member V.I.P.

    I think you should move on, I made the mistake of waiting on a girl that never called me, and when I actually reached her(by calling her on a number she didn't recongnized) she apologized for not calling me and she told me she didn't want to see me anymore.

    So I suggest to move on, I know it's easier said then done, but in my opinion it's the best thing to do.
  4. Pugz

    Pugz Ms. Malone V.I.P. Lifetime

    He's lying. Toss him aside and find someone better.
  5. Vidic15

    Vidic15 No Custom Title Exists V.I.P. Lifetime

    If this bloke treats ya like this, that's dog as. Move on, I am sure you can do better.
  6. Merc

    Merc Certified Shitlord V.I.P. Lifetime

    Before taking advice from anyone here, I think we need a lot more backstory. For all we know, this has only gone on for a day or two. Or, for all we know, you've been married for fifty years. Whatever the case, tell us more about your relationship so we can give you more accurate information.
  7. Lorraine

    Lorraine New Member

    I am 20 and single.
    I met this guy at a friend's housewarming and he picked up on me.
    He told my friend that he thinks I am good looking and asked for my number.
    So we started seeing each other for almost 2 months.
    And after I got drunk on our group vacation, he was bragging to my friend and some other guys how he was the only who could stop me from crying ( too emotional after alcohols). What the hell.
    And there we were, in the middle of nowhere and no more calls.

    Thanks guys for the opinions. Much appreciated. =).
  8. EllyDicious

    EllyDicious made of AMBIGUITY V.I.P. Lifetime

    ugh: typically "i don't want to see you anymore, but now that we're talking i gotta tell you this".
  9. Merc

    Merc Certified Shitlord V.I.P. Lifetime

    Sorry to pry again but does "seeing each other" mean a relationship or were you just hooking up? Because if you weren't in a relationship, he may not be seeing just you. Also, once more, how long has it been since you talked?
  10. Hiei

    Hiei The Hierophant

    Have you tried to call him at all during the time that he didn't call you? Like someone else said, maybe he really has just been busy. Or maybe he's just not into you.

    There's so many things that it could be that it'd seriouosly just be easier if you'd actually just call him and find out. Relationships are a two way street and need communication from both ends. Don't ever expect your partner to be the one that makes all the phone calls. It just doesn't work that way.

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