...that they're boring, were boring or was just not that spirited when y'all were making love? I was on the brink of doing it last night when my boyfriend and I were going at it. We did the make out, the foreplay and all but when the main course came along.....he was just laying there and I had to do everything. Even during the foreplay I was cheated because I only had my nips rubbed......wtf?!?! That's it?!?! I mean the sex is amazing and all, but I felt like he could have had a little more energy. But have y'all ever had a situation like this where your other half was kind of lacking the mojo and you had to do everything?