Bubbles
I ♥ Haters
Okay, for the first time, I’m gonna create a serious thread where I’m not an immature mofo or complaining about shit. A few minutes ago, a friend of mine (who I’ve known since the 7th grade) sent me a text message that one of her “girls saw” her boyfriend at the movies with another girl last night. So, I sent her text back, “so, whatcha thinkin?” and this is what I get back: “Im gunna get that bitch. Im gunna find out what time she gets off from her work”
Now, first of all, I wouldn’t just jump to conclusion by just because “your girl” told you that your guy is cheating on you. Sometimes girls just like to start drama for no reason.
But here’s what really bothers me. When we feel betrayed and/or cheated on by our SO, how come we always blame the person who comes between us? Your SO’s the one who made a commitment to you, not the other person. If anyone, she should be mad at her boyfriend. I know that doesn’t really apply to everyone, but I think we’ve all must have felt it at one point or another. I know I have, I wouldn’t go as far as “jumping” someone after work because of it, but I’d still think it. Why do we hold so much hate and hostility towards the other person, isn’t it just better to be alone than be with an alleged cheater? I’m not sure what I should do here. I can’t talk any sense in Janelle because she’s a stupid stubborn ho-bitch, and I have no idea who this other girl is. I mean, if I knew who she was I’d warn her, but I’ve never even heard of this girl before.
Moral dilemmas make my head hurt...
Now, first of all, I wouldn’t just jump to conclusion by just because “your girl” told you that your guy is cheating on you. Sometimes girls just like to start drama for no reason.
But here’s what really bothers me. When we feel betrayed and/or cheated on by our SO, how come we always blame the person who comes between us? Your SO’s the one who made a commitment to you, not the other person. If anyone, she should be mad at her boyfriend. I know that doesn’t really apply to everyone, but I think we’ve all must have felt it at one point or another. I know I have, I wouldn’t go as far as “jumping” someone after work because of it, but I’d still think it. Why do we hold so much hate and hostility towards the other person, isn’t it just better to be alone than be with an alleged cheater? I’m not sure what I should do here. I can’t talk any sense in Janelle because she’s a stupid stubborn ho-bitch, and I have no idea who this other girl is. I mean, if I knew who she was I’d warn her, but I’ve never even heard of this girl before.
Moral dilemmas make my head hurt...
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