Hello, all! I am new to this site. I was looking for a place to get some opinions. I live with my boyfriend. It is my house, and I let him live with me. He is unemployed and unable to help pay any expenses. I ask him to do the dishes in return. While I am at work, he smokes and plays around on the computer. I'm okay with this for the most part. I have recently begun to think that he is less mature and less responsible than I originally thought. He rarely looks for a job, and when he does, it's a half-assed search in my opinion. I got home from work yesterday and wanted to watch TV. He was playing a PC game and didn't like the idea of me watching TV, because then he gets distracted by it. I even turned the volume down pretty low while he wore headphones, and he said he was still distracted. I feel like he's tryig to guilt-trip me for wanting to watch my own TV when I get home from work! It's my computer that he's using, too, for the record. He finally gives in and "lets" me watch TV while his game is paused. I am not unreasonable for thinking that he needs to get over it and let me watch TV, am I? I mean, he plays games constantly!!!! I feel like he is being selfish. I often accomodate his playing, even if he's already been playing all day. This is just one example of what is going on. As far as affection goes, I'll just say that it is lacking. I've done stuff for him that he has not done for me (we've been going out almost a year.) he claims that he wants to, but time and time again, he passes up opportunities. I shouldn't have to demand services from him. Why can't he just do it when the occasion seems right? I really do like him a lot. We get along very well and enjoy each other's company. These kind if things are starting to drive me crazy, though. I'm going to bring this up when I get home tonight, but I would appreciate any outside opinions.