hello pls don't take this the wrong way it is a serious question.
I have been dating an american man(i am swiss), i have to go graphic now to ask this question pls dont think its rude its a question i desperately need answered!
He joked around while making love recently that my clitoris resembled a small penis and that i was getting an erection and that that turned him on, it shocked me and i thought it a strange thing to say.
He said later he was sorry it offended me but that alot of men say that as a joke to women who have a large clitoris that it resembles a small penis, but i asked some male swiss and european friends of mine and they have never heard the saying.
I just want to know am I overreacting? Do guys sometimes say this joking around just guytalk about a womans large clitoris?
Or am I right in thinking it's a strange thing to say and he's probably sick or something. After he said this I just can't move these doubts from my head.
Please somebody set me straight on this issue because I haven't an idea what to think anymore.
I have been dating an american man(i am swiss), i have to go graphic now to ask this question pls dont think its rude its a question i desperately need answered!
He joked around while making love recently that my clitoris resembled a small penis and that i was getting an erection and that that turned him on, it shocked me and i thought it a strange thing to say.
He said later he was sorry it offended me but that alot of men say that as a joke to women who have a large clitoris that it resembles a small penis, but i asked some male swiss and european friends of mine and they have never heard the saying.
I just want to know am I overreacting? Do guys sometimes say this joking around just guytalk about a womans large clitoris?
Or am I right in thinking it's a strange thing to say and he's probably sick or something. After he said this I just can't move these doubts from my head.
Please somebody set me straight on this issue because I haven't an idea what to think anymore.