1. Nelson Mandela once compared resentment to swallowing poison and then hoping for it to kill your enemy. Is there a time that stands out in your memory when you held resentment close and you should have been letting it go? 2. Does one's recreational preferences definitively distinguish a true adult from an overgrown child? 3. What percentage of people in the world are more awesome than you are? 4. Candidly, how much of a part did modesty play in your answer to #3? 5. What would you like as a grave marker epitaph? 6. Gen. "Stormin' " Norman Schwarzkopf, Supreme Allied Commander in 1991's Operation Desert Storm, told Barbara Walters in an interview that he doesn't trust a man who never cries. What do you make of that? 7. How much canned Spam would you estimate you've eaten in your life? 8. If you decided to invent an alcoholic drink, what would be the first ingredient you'd reach for? 9. At what age will you be old? 10. What currently popular electronic device will you probably never own? 11. On a scale of 1-10, how fortunate are you, and why? 12. How does your life differ from your childhood expectations for it? 13. How large a portion of your primary resources (time, money, emotional strength) is it ethical to spend on one person you love, when you're aware of 99 strangers in equal need? 14. Name a species in the animal kingdom whose extinction wouldn't bother you a whole bunch. 15. What, in your opinion, is the most erotic item of clothing that your partner (or a potential partner) could wear? 16. What do you do that's more stereotypical of the opposite sex?