Do you ever find yourself flirting with someone if it means it will encourage the person to do something you want? For example, when I have male clients sitting at my desk, I find that I treat them differently than the females. I'm not even sure I'd go so far as to call it flirting, but more of a smile of encouragement, and a "come on why would you walk out without signing the papers?" On the flip side, how do you react when someone is flirting with you? I've been amusing myself lately with the shock factor. I had someone in yesterday and it was obvious he was flirting. When he asked if he had seen me at a certain club last week I told him "no, my grandson cries all night and I'm too tired to go out anymore":lol: (the baby doesn't actually live with me, but the client didn't have to know that) I think it's amusing to floor people with harmless, and unexpected revelations about yourself, just to gauge their reactions.