Okay!Okay! I admit it.........I flirt! Now before you presume to cast judgement....Do you flirt? Here's my story: I was involved in a relationship but had this co-worker ( let's call her Jane for easy reference) with whom I flirted constantly. At first it was all innocent with a few jokes here and there, certain gestures.........but, overtime the chemistry between us intensified. I'm talking about the kind of intensity that permeates your mind and causes you to think about someone else when you're with your special someone. Anywhoo, Jane called my house late one night (very late) and guess who answered the phone?......... Tada!...... My girl! "Sh*t!.. Sh*t!..Sh*t!" I thought. I was a bit indisposed at the time but heard the phone, kinda figured it was Jane but I hoped she would at least hang up. Damn!...Damn!...Damn! Jane in her infinite wisdom decided to leave a message and the 'sh*t' not only hit the fan, it knocked it over! To this day I don't know what the message was.....the only message I got came in the form of my phone being hurled at my head accompanied by a barrage of 'angry comments'. 'Cut long story short', I tried to salvage the relationship with a couple of choice words and ample maneuver but to no avail. The 'fat lady' didn't just sing, she was was hollering! It was over! I flirted with disaster; the disaster being the possible disruption/destruction of my relationship and paid the cost. People always say " a little flirting won't hurt" but hey! if blown out of proportion it can. What do you think? Do you think flirting should be tolerated/allowed in a relationship or should it be prohibited?