A two-part question depending on your gender Guys: Do you open doors for girls (or any body for that matter), pull their chair out when they go to sit down, take their jacket, or any other kind gesture? Or do you not bother because some ladies find it offensive? Girls: Are you offended by above gestures or do you not mind? Personally, I love it when a guy does any of the above for me. Sure, I can do it myself, but it's a good change to find a guy willing to. IMO shows a true gentleman, and they seem to be few and far between.