My friend and I are having a conversation right now about her husband who used to be jealous but now doesn't care. Whether it's good or bad, yadda yadda. I wouldn't want a jealous partner but I'd appreciate at least a sign of interest. I think that the two are often interchanged. For example, I know someone who was accused of being the jealous guy just because he'd always ask his partner "what are you doing now?" (phone or text) or "who are you with?". He told me he's not being suspicious or whatever. He's just interested to know what his significant other was doing. At the start of the relationship, it's often even regarded as concern (oh how sweet, he's asking about my day). Funny how later in the relationship, it could be interpreted as "he doesn't trust me". :lol: My ex prides himself in not being a jealous guy, but I think he overdoes it to the point of not even asking where I'm going or who I'm hanging out with. The disinterest in my activities turns me off. Some say they'd want to have that type of partner because theirs won't even allow them to go out. But I just feel like if you can do anything with anyone (you prolly can even be dating 4 other guys and your partner is still clueless because he doesn't care what's happening to you) then what good is that?