I wasn't to sure what to call this thread, so I just went with being honest. I'll just use a girl for my example because it's easier, but it could be for either partner in this scenario. Let's say your wife buys a new dress/outfit for a dinner party, she puts it on and you just hate it, you think it looks awful, but you don't say anything. Then after a few minutes she asks you what you think about the new dress/outfit. Are you honest with her and tell her your true feelings because you don't want her to be upset, or you tell her the truth? Thoughts and reasons behind your answer.