Hey Guy's. Just finnished writing this and I am so sorry it is so long but if you would please can you read it, thank you so much! Ok I didn't want to discuss this issue yet but something has happened and I am reaching out to everyone here to give me any advise they can no matter how small, anything at this point would help. This is what has been going on recently which would also slightly explain my absence. I arrived in the USA in October and when anyone flies into the USA you get given a 90 day Visa Wavier. I don't want to go into detail about that type of Visa right now but there is allot of info on it on the internet. 4 days after I arrived here Danny called the Government office, the Lady on the phone talked to him for over an hour on how I get residence in America, basically she said as soon as we are Married we get the paperwork in so I still stay within the 90 day Visa. That didn't happen, and yes there were plenty of discussions between us as to why my Husband didn't do it then, and it wasn't a money issue as at the time it was only $350 to apply. So we carried on with life. Danny lost his job at the end of Dec/start of Jan and he applied for unemployment benefit, which wasn't enough for a dog to live on. He didn't attempt to find work and the result being we have moved 4 times since Jan, the most recent move 3 months ago. Before that we lived in a 3 bedroom house with Danny's best friend, 3 bedrooms, 7 people, and we shared a room with his best friend. I was going crazy, two teenage girls, drama and having to share a bedroom, drama central. I practically forced Danny to get us out of there and I ended up finding us a house share with two girls, we have the whole basement, bath, bed, livingroom and shared Kitchen for only $350 a month. I am on disability benefit in England and I used that to pay the rent so far but I had to have that canceled as it is against the law to claim it now I live in the US. This months rent is paid but Dan still hasn't got a job, we need a pay check by the first of next month or back to doing a midnight flit so we don't get taken to court. This isn't the biggest problem, the biggest problem is Health. In this country you have no rights and are treated like scum if you don't have documentation, sorry but it's true. Fuck I don't wanna talk about this but I have to, glad I can't see you guy's right now. A month ago I was pregnant, it was an accident, we are a Married couple and it happens. We were shocked but excited, we are in love and we made one half of each of us. I don't know how much you guy's know about this or how much I have told you but I have a serious medical issue with my joints, I have hip dysplacia and deformity in my legs and pelvis, it's bad and I should be under the care of specialist orthopedic surgeons as I was in England. So I was a high risk pregnancy, I already knew that my lower body can't sustain the weight of a growing child and there is no possibility of a natural birth, the baby might have had to be born premature and in an incubator until developed. I spoke to a Nurse in the family who deals with Orthopedics and she said that I would need a walker as soon as possible to get as much weight off my lower body as possible and about two months into the pregnancy I would be bedridden throughout the pregnancy and of course no pain medication. We were willing to go through any ammout of pain for this child, we thought we would be ok, as long as I have Doctors to check on the baby and myself, we were refused all medical treatment. My blood pressure went very high, my pulse rate was very high for a long period of time, my anxiety was full blown, I wasn't eating, I was a mess. We didn't know the outcome if the child went full term but we did know that I would be crippled during and after. I thought I was going to have a Heart attack but I couldn't even see a Doctor and trust me, we went down every single avenue we possibly could, everything short of robbing a bank for the 100,000 or more it would cost! We wanted to go back to England but of course where would we find the 2000 for plane tickets and a Passport for Danny. Now there is no baby. As some of you know I also have mental health problems, bpd, ocd, anxiety/panic disorders, depression and an eating disorder on top of that but I am stong, I try not to moan and I get on with it same as always, as long as I have a Doctor and Meds. Well of course.........all medical treatment refused. I have been in the Country 9 months this month and so far I have been pretty stable, being happy helps. The last few months I have gone into a relapse, panic attacks are the worse and it is daily, it was starting before the baby but after that it got allot more servere, the OCD has all of a sudden decided to rear it's ugly head more than usual, but thankfully no thoughts of attempting to kill myself again but if that starts happening, fuck I don't even wana think about it. So this morning yet again, panic attack, I got on the phone to a clinic to try and get a Doctor but no luck. You know I did manage to get hold of some Valium which is amazing but my Doctors in England actually refused to give me it, addictive personality and I heard rehab isn't a nice place. So the Lady on the phone said that basically since new legislation was put in place yesterday I really, really can't get any form of treatment, not even a FREE clinic. So before I finnish we went to an Attorney a while ago, it's a huge mess almost $3000 to get a Visa and fuck knows how long it will take. Can't afford to go back to England and I am NOT leaving without my Husband, can't afford an attorny and fees for the hundreds of pages of paperwork. Not sure if time is on my side, just before I left for America I was rushed into Hospital in servere pain in my joints, swelled up so much, I couldn't walk for two weeks, I have cronic pain but I can deal with it fine until my body decides it's had enough. I have not meds, no money no medical care and no way to get to England right now. Guy's I need you, if you know about the Law, about my rights in this country, anything at all that can help me and my Husband please try and point me in the right direction, I have no one clue about what to do it really is a mess. Most of you on here that I know well you are intelligent and know your stuff. What can we do?????? Thank you so much if you have read all of this, I really appriciate any suggestions.