Ok, so there's this girl, my age, my grade, my school, good looking. We've been friends for a year or two; we talk a lot, etc. She's always having something bad going on, and we talk about this stuff all the time and I help her out and give her advice. Recently I just found whole lot more out and she really opened up to me. I've gotten her to tell me more stuff she tells her therapist because she doesn't want to remember and admit the mistakes she's made. She told me she used to cut herself and it really hurt me actually. I've told her that I will always be there, she can trust me (she has trust problems and I think she trusts me), she can call me whenever she wants to 24/7 if she ever feels bad, feels like cutting again, or just wants to talk about the weather. I say these things because I care about her. I want her to be happy. When she's sad, I'm sad, when she's hurting, I hurt. I try to do whatever I can in my power to make her feel better. It's hard to explain you know? Am I just being a good friend, or do I really like this girl? I thought stuff like this happens after you get into a relationship with someone. Thanks for you thoughts, this has just been driving me nuts and I'm losing sleep over it.