I'm probably making this far more complicated than I need to... I'm currently single, and have been for considerably longer than I'd like. Single is a problem, but for lack of suitable girlfriends, a partial solution would even just be some casual hooking up. Satisfaction on a physical basis while lacking an actual relationship is still better than nothing at all. Well, this girl I know, apparently wants to engage in some casual makeouts (possibly leading to sex) with me. [backstory: we hooked up once while exceptionally drunk, and have since become friends although we dont see eachother superbly often] This would be great, except for the fact that I'm not very attracted to her... she's not very good looking, although I wouldn't say she's ugly by any means, she's just not particularly hot. My mind likes to try to convince me that I can do better than that (compiled with the fact that my previous girlfriends have been extremely hot), but the fact that I've had such a long absence from intimate female contact would seem to prove otherwise, and honestly I dont have any other viable prospects on the horizon. Not to mention, she has a boyfriend, although I dont know him and I wouldn't be the one cheating, so I'm wrestling with myself on whether or not this conflicts with my sense of morals. While I've been mulling all this over in my head, I've kind of been avoiding her to delay the situation... which seems to lead her to thinking I'm playing hard to get or something, so she's been pursuing me even more aggressively, to the point where I can't continue to avoid her for long. So the question is: Do I hook up with her and sate my desire for female contact despite the fact I dont find her that attractive, or do I continue this dry spell and try to remain just friends with her? Or in other words: Do I choose to indulge in diluted/lukewarm satisfaction now, or do I postpone any satisfaction to some indefinite future in the hopes that at that point it will be considerably better and therefore worth the wait? Or maybe the real question is: Are makeouts/more even worth it with someone you dont find attractive?